14 Sexy Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is many different things to many different people, which means that when it comes to V-Day vibes, there are many to choose from. You could go all in on romance, keep it cute and casual, or slip into something sexy and turn the day of love into a night of lust. For those looking to indulge their sexy side, Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to turn up the heat and celebrate with sex.

Whether your idea of sexy means a romantic night in bed with the love of your life, channeling Sabrina Carpenter and breaking out the fuzzy pink handcuffs, or staying in for an intimate evening with your favorite vibrator, there are so many ways to get sexy this Valentine’s Day.

If you’re in need of a little inspiration as you make your V-Day plans, here are 14 sexy Valentine’s Day ideas for anyone looking to get spicy this February. Whether you’re partnered or single, vanilla or kinky, seeking something simple or ready to pull out all the stops, there’s a sexy Valentine’s Day idea for every kind of vibe below. Take a look through this list and get planning; the sexy V-Day of your dreams awaits!

1. Try a New Sex Toy

Surprise your partner with a new toy (or treat yourself to one) and spend the night getting acquainted with your new plaything. Whether you’re in the mood to break out a butt plug or a penis ring, splurge on a coveted vibrator, or experiment with some kinky sexcessories, Valentine’s Day is a great excuse to try something new. And if you’ve never used toys together before, then V-Day is the perfect opportunity to bring them into the bedroom and start exploring together. (And here’s some advice on to introducing your partner to your vibrator.)

2. Use a Couples Vibrator

While pretty much any sex toy can be incorporated into partnered sex, there’s a whole genre of vibrators specifically designed for couples to use together. From wearable vibes designed to be worn during penetrative sex to remote controlled toys that one partner wears while the other operates, nothing says sexy V-Day like a toy for two.

Related StorySex Toys for Couples? Why Yes, Indeed!3. Exchange Sexy Massages

A massage can be surprisingly intimate when you’re giving one to a lover in the privacy of your own home. And while a massage can be an erotic act all on its own, it also doubles as foreplay. Light some candles, turn down the lights, invest in some high-quality massage oil, and spend the evening getting all riled up as you take turns rubbing each other down.

4. Wear Sexy Lingerie

Lingerie on Valentine’s Day may be a cliché, but if you can’t wear it on V-Day, when else are you going to do it? Whether you’re partnered or single, use the holiday as an excuse to treat yourself to some sexy new pieces and have an at-home boudoir shoot, show off for your very lucky lover, or get all dressed up for an intimate night in with your sexiest self.

5. Or Let Your Partner Pick Out Some Lingerie for You

Give your Valentine the gift of knowing exactly what to get you, all while giving themselves the gift of getting to see you in sexy lingerie. Set a budget, buy a gift card to the lingerie store of your choosing, and write down your sizes with a note that says, “You pick.” It’s a gift, a game, and a date night all in one.

6. Perform a Sexy Striptease

Live out your Dita Von Teese fantasy and treat your Valentine to a private strip show. You can find tutorials online or look for an in-person pole dancing or burlesque class in your area.

7. Play a Sex Game

There are tons of sexy board games and intimacy decks designed for couples. Pick one (or a few) and plan a Valentine’s Day game night...with a very sexy twist.

8. Write a Sexy Love Letter

Sure, you could buy a Hallmark card from the drugstore, or you could give your foreplay a literary twist by penning your Valentine a love letter; the sexier, the better. What better way to remind your partner how loved and desired they are than with the gift of heartfelt, hand-written smut?

9. Watch (Ethical) Porn Together

Not only is watching porn with a partner a great way to get turned on, but it can also be an extremely intimate experience that brings you closer as a couple, helps you learn more about each other’s desires, and may open up deeper conversations about your sex life. Pick (and pay for) an erotic film you’d like to watch together for a very sexy V-Day movie night or take turns showing each other some of your personal favorites.

10. Read Erotica

There are other ways to enjoy erotic material if watching porn isn’t your thing. Pick a steamy scene from your favorite romance novel to read out loud to your partner, and maybe even act it out together if some role play inspiration strikes.

11. Listen to Audio Erotica

Audio erotica is another alternative if visual porn isn’t your thing. From elaborate sexy stories to POV-style recordings, there’s tons of sexy content out there to listen to on V-Day, either by yourself or with a partner.

12. Plan a Sexy Getaway

One way to have a sexy Valentine’s Day is to spend it someplace else. Novelty can really enhance sex, especially in a long-term relationship, and a romantic getaway for two is an amazing way to fully unwind and celebrate by slipping into your sexiest selves.

13. Or a Sexy Staycation

You don’t have to travel far to have an intimate Valentine’s Day away from home. Booking a night at a hotel or an Airbnb in your area can provide just as much steamy novelty as a full-fledged V-Day getaway.

14. Get Kinky

Whether you and your partner are experienced kinksters ready to check something new off your sex bucket list or kink-curious beginners just dipping a toe in some spicier waters, Valentine’s Day is a perfect opportunity to get a little freaky and try something new. From role play to BDSM to temperature play and (many, many) more, there are tons of kinky fantasies to explore. Just make sure you talk to your partner, do your research, and make sure everyone is informed, aligned, and enthusiastically consenting before bringing any new kinks into the bedroom this Valentine’s Day.

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